Culture

Is the vehicle more important than the destination?

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#8: Ministry is not just how good your programs, strategies, or environments become. They are simply vehicles. Ministry is all about people being changed eternally by Jesus! In 2012 there are more ministry strategies, books, conferences and blogs about the new "ministry nugget" that will take your church to the "next level." For those of us in ministry we see all of the many ways churches function. We divide it up into traditional, modern, contemporary, and emergent churches (I'm sure there are more). I grew up in a somewhat traditional church and have served in this type of church. I have also worked in the contemporary model of the church. I am grateful for the new vision for the church with how it functions and reaches the lost. But this is what leads me to my next questions...

Does the style or environment of the church matter in eternity? We must realize that the style, programs, strategies are the avenue in which we share the truth of Jesus Christ. If the goal becomes one of these vehicles then the gospel can become of less importance.

Are we so relevant  and comfortable in the church that we are trying to disciple lost church members? We are spending a lot of time in our churches today trying to revive the lost people who have not been saved by Jesus. This is why there is so much frustration with church leaders and a lack of passion by the people in the church.

Example: Is the church supposed to only be attractional? It is the "come and see" mentality. It is consumer driven. People come with a "buffet" mentality. What can I get from the different programs offered? In the 1960-1980's this style dominated the church world. This "attractional" or "consumer" model does not work anymore (and I think never has). The church is not the social center of today's culture like it was in the past. We must move into a missional mindset if we are going to reach this generation.

Example: Is the church supposed to send people to be missional? Yes! The word “church” stems from the Greek word ekklesia. It is defined as “an assembly” or “called-out ones.” The root meaning of “church” is not a building, but of people. Jesus came for people. Jesus came to "seek and save the lost" (Luke 19:10). One of the goals of a church is for the people to become personal soul winners and grow in community (Proverbs 11:30)!

The vehicle is important (environment, strategy, programs). But if the vehicle becomes the crown of the church, we can miss the King.

If leaders become more focused upon the program and less focused upon sharing the gospel, what will the church look like in 10 years? As leaders, our goal should be to lead people into a growing relationship with Jesus. People are looking for hope for their lives, their family and friends. Environments, programs and strategies help people walk in the door, but if that is the end goal then we are simply filling buildings with lost people. I haven't heard one baptism video testimony who talks about how amazing the programs were or how nice the environments were. A person who has been changed by Jesus, talks about Him!

In God's eyes, faithfulness is more important than performance. Let's not make the vehicle of ministry more important than the vision of the gospel changing lives for eternity.

What are your thoughts?

Heart Check-up

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If you have been to the doctor for a heart check-up, you know that you want to know exactly the condition of your heart. In the Bible the word heart is mentioned 963 times! We protect a lot of areas of our lives (money, appearance, popularity, cell phones) but often we do not guard our hearts!

Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life." Proverbs 4:23

“Guard” or “Keep” is translated preserve, observe, watchers, or watchmen. The Hebrew word "natsar" is a command calling for continual watching.

The heart is the inner core of a person. The heart refers to the “mind, will and emotions.”

God examines our heart, not our outward appearance, “The Lord doesn’t see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart 1 Samuel 16:7. In our culture, we often hear people say, "follow your heart!" We need to understand that our hearts reveal we are lost! “The heart is more deceitful than all else And is desperately sick; Who can understand it?” Jeremiah 17:9.

Jesus said:

“If you hate your brother, you are a murderer at heart…” Matthew 5:22 and “Look with lust, you commit adultery in your heart…” Matthew 5:28 But the words you speak come from the heart—that’s what defiles you. For from the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, all sexual immorality, theft, lying, and slander.” Matthew 15:18-19

In order to guard our heart, we need to know the condition of your heart. How do we guard our heart?

  • Mind: What you think becomes what you believe.

Satan is a terrorist. He wants to poison our minds from the truth of God’s Word. If our mind is dwelling on the opposite of what God's Word says, we will be fixed upon poison (Proverbs 23:7, 27:19). Our mind is the foundation for what we focus upon and live. "Give careful thoughts to the paths of your feet and be steadfast in all your ways.” Proverbs 4:26

  • Will: The attitude and response to life flows out of your heart.

Our arteries can harden and we can have a heart attack physically. Spiritually we can allow the trash of the world to invade our mind, will and emotions and lead to a hardened, flat-lined heart. A religious hypocrite is one who can perform outwardly but does not know Jesus internally. A follower of Christ has a closer, abiding relationship with Jesus.

  • Emotions: Are my feelings in line with what Jesus says?

Proverbs 28:26, “He who trusts in his own heart is a fool, but he who walks wisely will be delivered.” We have to discover what Jesus says about us and make sure our feelings are subject to His truth. God is jealous for our heart’s affection. He does not need it but desires it! Our heart finds purpose through a growing relationship with God.

“And you will seek Me and find Me, when you search for Me with all your heart.” Jeremiah 29:13 “

If God performed open heart surgery on you, what would we find? Do you have a relationship with Jesus or just religious ritual? Are you guarding your heart emotionally and spiritually?

 

Guardrails in Friendship

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We all agree guardrails are a good idea on an icy road through the mountains. What about when it comes to our friendships? God has wired us for friendship. We all desire friendship!  The question is, how do we build strong, lasting friendships? We have to understand that friends influence us and have the opportunity to determine the quality and direction of your life.   Friends will either bring you down or lift you up.

“He who walks with the wise grows wise; but a companion of fools suffers harm" Proverbs 13:20. Paul also wrote, “be careful how you walk because the days are evil.” Ephesians 5:16. We live in a culture that is addicted to acceptance. We long for it. We crave it and sometimes at any cost emotionally, physically and spiritually. In order to discover true friendship we need to know the difference between a fool and wise person: 

A fool is a person who knows the difference between right and wrong but doesn’t care. “Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.”  1 Corinthians 15:33. Your greatest regrets revolve around being with friends. We easily “drop our guard” when we are surrounded with friends. It is much more about who you are with, than what you are doing. Proverbs warns us that a companion of fools suffers harm!

A wise person is someone who knows the difference between right and wrong and chooses to do what is right, even if it is hard.

The people closest to you have access to your heart and your mind.

 Real Friends:

  • Will encourage you even when you fail. 
  • Will be under God's authority. 
  • Know you deeply and love you unconditionally
  • Will be a person you can trust to tell you the truth even when it hurts. "Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy." Proverbs 27:6

Definition of friendship? A trustworthy person you mutually choose to love and to encourage in order to bring God glory. Instead of waiting for the perfect friend to come along, go and be that friend that you desire to someone else! 

How important is friendship? What are the qualities of a true friend?